For he that in these things serveth Christ is acceptable to God, and approved of men. Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another. (Romans 14:18-19)
Our actions and our attitudes matter not only to God, but also to the people God has placed in our lives. When we follow things that promote peace and build up one another, we reveal God’s heart to the world.
Following after the things which make for peace is more than just making sure we don’t have conflict with one another. It means we are chasing after unity. Finding common ground and seeking reconciliation are its top priorities during times of tension. It’s setting aside your personal preferences by preferring someone else over yourself.
Living life this way can change marriages, friendships, churches, and even work relationships. Imagine the impact that this mindset would make if spouses, siblings, and parents were committed to building each other up. It would create an environment marked by love, unity, and growth.
Our choices, responses and behavior should contribute to the growth of the Kingdom no matter where we are. As we decide to edify in our homes, workplaces, churches, and neighborhoods, we can be peacemakers and builders. Lifting others up helps them fulfill their Kingdom call.
Practical Application
Challenge yourself to pursue peace, reconcile with others, and uplift those around you. You should have a word on your lips to encourage someone, to prefer someone and to give peace to someone. When you do, not only to you honor the person, but you also honor God.