The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into the innermost parts of the belly. (Proverbs 26:22)
A talebearer is not someone who can weave beautiful narration or is a master orator of speech. The person Proverbs 26:22 refers to is someone who spreads secrets, creates false stories, and exploits others using their ability to tell lies beautifully.
The proverb states that such a person is not simply making sounds come out of their mouths. The power of their words is vividly explained as wounds that pierce deep into the innermost parts of the belly. Just as music has the power to stir emotions, our words possess the power to wound or heal.
Have you ever heard the saying, “Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me”? There are not many greater lies than this one taught to kids everywhere. The truth is words are our most powerful tool and weapon. If we just throw them around everywhere, with no thought or consideration, they will cause incredible damage.
I’ve had counseling sessions with people who attempted suicide, and the primary reason they did was because of words others said about or to them. They became so wounded, they simply wanted to die.
Consider the weight of your words. Don’t simply say what is on your mind or try to attack others with the weapons of the words at your disposal. You have been given access to a very powerful force, so do not use it for evil.
Practical Application
Guard your mouth. When you feel like saying something damaging, hurtful or hate-filled, think of your words as being real daggers and remind yourself of the damage hurtful word can do to someone. Do not allow yourself to speak damaging words over others, no matter what the situation.